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Let Others Successes Be Your Guiding Light!

As Therapists, Coaches, Psychics & Healers, it’s so important to do the work on ourselves to eliminate unhealthy comparing & competition from our worlds…

We all know it’s not pretty to be tearing people down verbally or energetically at any time…

But to tear down or compare yourself to anyone else in your industry professionally is not only unnecessary but highly unkind to you and to any other individuals involved…




I have always said to mentoring clients that other coaches and therapists should inspire, motivate and encourage you…


Our judgement of others says nothing about them. But it does say everything about us…



It can show us where we pick fault, criticise, put others down, judge, belittle them or attempt to undermine others authority…

Is this how you could potentially talk to yourself? Is this how someone once spoke to you? Or have you learnt this pattern by example? Negative self-talk will erode your self confidence, self-esteem and self worth faster than paint stripper on wood…

This patterning is where you get to break free... 
What if instead you could use others successes and achievements and what that brings up in you to lead you to ask better questions about what it is you have to let go of? I encourage you to… Build Others Up… Catch yourself in any negative inner or outer conversation - Say to yourself.. STOP & Refuse to tear them down... Instead have gratitude for what they are guiding you to the awareness of within you… 
 Your light won’t shine any more brightly if you attempt to put out the light of another… 

It merely casts shadows upon yourself… Use the awareness of the shadow self to do the inner work on yourself… When you try to dampen the light of a fellow Coach it’s unethical and simply out of alignment with your souls truth… When you do the work within you and choose to build other people up instead of tearing them down you move into the heart space to see the reflections of beauty within you… Praise is important. Giving praise where praise is due makes others feel fabulous. In return, you get to feel great and attract more of that back to you… 
Become willing to address and release your unhealthy patterns of behaviour of comparison for they do not serve you to be of service… 
 When you are caught up in a moment, try this:

 Tap into source and release the ego… 
Ask: Would source genuinely say this about me or another person? 
 If the answer is no, “What might they make you aware of?” #coaches #ethicalcoaching #heartcentered #takeresponsibilityforwhatsyours #innerwork #innerchild #healingthyself #walkyourtalk #noavoidanceofselfwork #investinyou


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